Thou shalt not harbor unforgiveness ~ reflex on Mt 5:20-26

Jesus has not come to abolish the law, but to fulfill it. He has not done away with the law, but he wants us to understand what it truly means and to live it deeply. God does not want external compliance, but the obedience of the heart – doing His will and obeying His commands out of love.

Through this lens, Jesus’ words in today’s Gospel are very clear. The scribes and Pharisees are content with a superficial “righteousness,” in which they comply strictly on the outside (much for the sake of the good opinion of others, rather than the glory of God!) but have not allowed their hearts to be transformed by this compliance. Jesus is calling his listeners understand the deeper meaning of the law and to obey from the heart. “You shall not kill” does not mean only refraining from murder, which is part of the natural law; as part of divine law, it means being God-like, working to be at peace with everyone, to refrain from sinful anger and insults and lack of forgiveness, because these are all deadly to the heart, if not the body. These things harm both the person toward which we direct them, and ourselves! It is a lose-lose situation.

God’s directives are always a win-win! We are called to examine our consciences: Do we harbor resentment against some people or hold them in contempt? Have we allowed anger and unforgiveness to fester within us, telling ourselves and those around us how we have been wronged or why we are right? Have we cut people out of our lives without being open to the possibility of reconciliation? Have we given the Sign of Peace to strangers at Mass, while refusing to offer peace to those close to us because of some real or imagined hurt? Do we pray the Our Father without taking to heart the words “forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us”?

This is critical. We must forgive others in order to be forgiven by the Lord! No one sees what is truly in my heart except the Lord and me. I must ask the Lord to help me see where I am harming others and myself, and ask for the grace to forgive fully (in difficult situations, the first step may be to ask for the grace to want to want to forgive them). When we have forgiven others, our hearts are free to receive the forgiveness and mercy that the Lord longs to give each of us.

This is the true freedom of the children of God.